I agree. My wife dragged me to this movie last weekend.
I went in, like you, expecting to be bored to tears by another silly romantic comedy. However, it was funnier than I thought it would be. I especially liked the chracter Kevin James' played. I mean, every guy can empathize with him in wanting the "unattainable" girl. You sort of find yourself rooting for him.
Anyway, I liked this movie. Does that make me any less of a man :?: